Saturday, January 9, 2010

This is a sort of a sequel to my very famous or rather infamous post about the pros of being single. I f u don't remember it here is the link...click here
I had decided to write this soon after my so called '25 comment post'...but it still took me almost a year to write.

Everything has its pros and cons and so does being in a relationship. I, however, wish to list all the pros of being committed…

1.It's good for your growth. Being in a relationship can develop not only your love life, but also your sense of responsibility, decision-making, time management and self-improvement and also hone your lying skills.
2.Those staying away from home can get get some of their desires fulfilled by their loved ones eg. you can anytime ask ur loved one to prepare some special dish that u miss the most.
3.If friends are not around an evening walk wid ur loved one is a gr8 stress buster.
4.A girlfriend/boyfriend provides you happiness when you are feeling dismal, monetary donations when they are needed, and countless other things that are also important
5.someone to be with in your darkest hour, or just to hang out with, the thought of knowing someone loves you more and more each day. and the knowledge of being in someones heart and mind every day
6.someone to share your incredible experiences, have "inside jokes", intimate and private communication, establish and build trust, explore new interests together and develop a passion you might not have discovered on your own.
7.As a friend put it-It's an ego-booster. Guys who have girlfriends are more confident and secure about themselves...Bah!
8.If the movie is very boring u hav other things to do.
9.The couple muvie tickets /couple passes u win actually can be put to relevant use.
10.The 'Grill-Chill' theory-Suppose one has to attend a very long torturous lecture and he/she who is then totally grossed out gets a nice hug from his loved one. The smile on his/her face just says it all.

5 comments:

  1. Ahuh-- now this is being put right by tanmay now...who is himself single..i truly believe whn u r committed or in a relation..his/her confidence is boosted...nd mentally really strong..the partner does help like a support....
    nd talkin abt fun u always do have company....

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  2. All is not so colourful as you painted..

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  3. wat's life with just a few colours...let all the colours be present....
    u put it really well tanmay..agree with all d pros u mentioned..it is actually a great feeling knowin dat sum1 is always der, watsoever may happen...
    but den der r sum restrictions as well...so it all really depends on whether d restrictions, the sacrifices are really worth 4 any particular relation...
    hope u get 2 njoy all d pros soon---> once again dat is..;-)

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  4. I'll keep it short--apt and convincing sequel.keep updating.

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  5. well said but things don't really go as smoothly.. u forgot the expensive shopping and meaningless fights...

    I'd still say its worth the trouble

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